Quick Answer
A MIAM (Mediation Information Assessment Meeting) is a mandatory meeting with a family mediator that you must attend before making most applications to family court in England and Wales. It typically lasts 45-60 minutes and costs £90-150 (or free with legal aid).
What is a MIAM?
MIAM stands for Mediation Information Assessment Meeting. It's a meeting with a qualified family mediator where they explain how mediation works and assess whether it's suitable for your situation.
The MIAM was introduced by the Children and Families Act 2014 to encourage families to resolve disputes outside of court wherever possible. Court proceedings can be lengthy, expensive, and stressful - mediation offers a more collaborative alternative.
Why is a MIAM Required?
Before you can submit a C100 form (the application for a Child Arrangements Order) to family court, you must either:
- Have attended a MIAM and received a certificate, OR
- Qualify for an exemption (such as domestic abuse or urgency)
The court will not process your application without proof that you've met this requirement. This applies to most family court applications involving children or finances after separation.
What Happens at a MIAM?
Introduction
The mediator introduces themselves and explains the purpose of the meeting. They'll outline confidentiality.
Your Situation
You'll be asked about your circumstances - children, current arrangements, and what you're hoping to achieve.
Mediation Explained
The mediator explains how mediation works, its benefits, and what to expect if you proceed.
Suitability Assessment
The mediator assesses whether mediation is appropriate for your case, including any safety concerns.
Certificate Issued
You receive your MIAM certificate - either to proceed with mediation, or confirming that mediation isn't suitable.
How Much Does a MIAM Cost?
| Option | Cost | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Standard MIAM | £90-150 | Per person |
| With Legal Aid | Free | If you qualify financially |
| Voucher Scheme | £500 contribution | Government scheme for full mediation |
MIAM Exemptions
You may be exempt from attending a MIAM if:
- Domestic Abuse - Evidence of domestic abuse (police, court orders, medical evidence)
- Child Protection - Local authority involvement in child protection
- Urgency - Risk of harm or child abduction requiring immediate action
- Previous MIAM - You attended a MIAM for the same dispute in the last 4 months
- Other Party Overseas - The other party lives outside England & Wales
- Other Party in Prison - The other party is in prison or a secure hospital
Important: If you claim an exemption, you must tick the relevant box on the C100 form and may need to provide evidence. If you're unsure whether you qualify, speak to a solicitor or mediator.
How to Prepare for Your MIAM
Being prepared helps you get the most from your MIAM. Here's what to think about:
Think About
- What outcomes do you want?
- What's most important to you?
- What are your red lines?
- What might you be flexible on?
Bring With You
- Children's details and ages
- Current arrangements info
- Any relevant court orders
- Questions you want to ask
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Start Preparing NowFrequently Asked Questions
Do both parents need to attend a MIAM?
Each parent attends their own MIAM separately - you don't attend together initially. If the other parent refuses to attend or doesn't respond, you can still get your certificate.
What if my ex won't attend?
You can still proceed. The mediator will attempt to contact the other party. If they don't respond or refuse, your certificate will note this, and you can proceed to court.
Can I do a MIAM online?
Yes, many mediators offer remote MIAMs via video call. This became more common during COVID-19 and remains a convenient option.
How long is a MIAM certificate valid?
A MIAM certificate is valid for 4 months from the date it's issued. After that, you'd need to attend another MIAM.
Is a MIAM the same as mediation?
No. A MIAM is just an initial assessment meeting (one session). Full mediation involves multiple sessions where you work with your ex to reach agreements.