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Common law partners and the law
In England and Wales a "common law partner" has no special legal status: there is no common law marriage, however long you live together or whether you have children[1]. If you separate, claims mainly turn on who owns the home and on support for your children, not maintenance for you[2][3].
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01/ The myth
There is no common law marriage
People often call an unmarried partner a "common law" husband, wife or partner, but the Ministry of Justice says there is no legal status of common law marriage in England and Wales, regardless of how long a couple has lived together or whether they have children[1]. It calls the belief that living together gives you married couples' rights the "common law marriage myth"[1].
Almost half of people in England and Wales (47%) believe such a status exists, the government's June 2026 consultation says[1]. The House of Commons Library says cohabiting couples have legal protection in some areas, such as the law on domestic abuse, but cohabitation gives no general legal status to a couple[1].
Advicenow says there is no common law marriage in England and Wales however long you have lived together, and that separating partners need to agree how to divide joint money, joint debts and property[6].
03/ Property
Your home if you split up
Under section 14 of the 1996 Act, anyone with an interest in property held on trust can ask the court for an order, including one declaring how big each person's share is[2]. The court's powers are largely limited to deciding who owns what and ordering a sale[2].
Advicenow says a partner living in a home the other owns alone has no automatic right to a share, unless they can show, for example, a shared intention that they would own a share and that they acted to their disadvantage because of it, or that they contributed to the purchase price, mortgage or major building work; these cases usually go to the civil court, not the family court[6].
04/ Children
Children of unmarried parents
When a court decides a question about a child's upbringing, the child's welfare is its paramount consideration[8]. A mother always has parental responsibility; an unmarried father has it if he is registered on the birth certificate (for births registered since 1 December 2003), makes an agreement with the mother or gets a court order[9][10].
A parent must support a child financially whether or not they have parental responsibility[11]. See unmarried fathers' rights for more detail.
05/ If a partner dies
Inheritance for unmarried partners
If your partner dies without a will, you have no automatic right to inherit, however long you were together and whether or not you had children, the government says[4].
You can ask the court for reasonable financial provision from the estate if you lived with your partner in the same household, as if you were married or civil partners, for the whole of the 2 years before they died[4]. For a cohabitant, that provision is limited to what is reasonable for your maintenance; a husband, wife or civil partner is not limited in that way[4]. If you lived together for less time, you may still claim if your partner was maintaining you[4].
06/ Planning ahead
Cohabitation agreements
A cohabitation agreement can set out who owns property, each partner's financial responsibilities while you live together, and what should happen if you split up[12]. It can be made at any stage and updated, but it is not automatically legally binding: whether a court enforces it depends on how it is drafted[12]. The House of Commons Library says couples are encouraged to take legal advice on a proposed agreement[12].
07/ Mediation
MIAMs and mediation for unmarried couples
The MIAM requirement applies to the children and financial applications listed in Practice Direction 3A[13]. It covers child arrangements orders and other section 8 orders, and financial provision for children under Schedule 1 to the Children Act 1989[14][15]. Unless an exemption applies, you attend a MIAM before applying to court[16].
See what is a MIAM and MIAM exemptions. A mediator can record what you agree in a Memorandum of Understanding, which is not legally binding[17].
08/ Will the law change?
Cohabitation reform: the position at 28 September 2026
On 5 June 2026 the Ministry of Justice launched a consultation, "A fairer end to relationships", on new rights for cohabiting couples in England and Wales; it closed on 14 August 2026[5]. The government says it will consider the findings before finalising policy, and that reforms will follow when parliamentary time allows[5]. Until then, the current law described on this page applies.
09/ Scotland
Scotland has a different law
In Scotland, the Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006 gives cohabitants limited claims[19]. When the court decides whether someone was a cohabitant, it looks at how long they lived together, the nature of the relationship and their financial arrangements[19].
A former cohabitant in Scotland can ask the court for a capital sum based on economic advantage and disadvantage, and for help with the economic burden of caring for their child; the claim must be made no later than 1 year after they stop living together[19]. If a cohabitant dies without a will, the survivor can apply within 6 months of the death[19]. See grandparents' rights in Scotland for other Scottish family law.
10/ Questions
Frequently asked questions
What is a common law partner?
Do common law partners have rights in the UK?
Is my partner entitled to half my house?
Can I get maintenance from my ex-partner if we were not married?
Does a common law partner inherit if there is no will?
How long do you have to live together to be common law partners?
11/ Sources
Sources we checked
- A fairer end to relationships: consultation document — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK · "Common law marriage" and cohabitation — House of Commons Library
- A fairer end to relationships: the current law for cohabitants — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK · Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996, section 14 — legislation.gov.uk
- Children Act 1989, Schedule 1, paragraph 1 — legislation.gov.uk · A fairer end to relationships: provision for children — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK
- Inheritance (Provision for Family and Dependants) Act 1975, section 1 — legislation.gov.uk · A fairer end to relationships: the current law on inheritance — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK
- Millions of unmarried couples to get stronger rights — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK (5 June 2026) · A fairer end to relationships consultation — Ministry of Justice Citizen Space · A fairer end to relationships: executive summary and next steps — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK
- Living together and breaking up — Advicenow
- Child Maintenance Service (printable guide) — GOV.UK
- Children Act 1989, section 1 — legislation.gov.uk
- Children Act 1989, section 2 — legislation.gov.uk
- Children Act 1989, section 4 — legislation.gov.uk · Making an application: children and the family courts (CB1) — HMCTS, GOV.UK
- Children Act 1989, section 3 — legislation.gov.uk
- A fairer end to relationships: cohabitation agreements — Ministry of Justice, GOV.UK · "Common law marriage" and cohabitation: cohabitation agreements — House of Commons Library
- Family Procedure Rules, Part 3 — Ministry of Justice · Practice Direction 3A — Ministry of Justice
- Practice Direction 3A — Ministry of Justice
- Practice Direction 3A — Ministry of Justice
- FPR Part 3, r3.7
- Divorce — getting started — Advicenow
- "Common law marriage" and cohabitation: Law Commission proposals — House of Commons Library
- Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006, section 25 — legislation.gov.uk · Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006, section 28 — legislation.gov.uk · Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006, section 29 — legislation.gov.uk
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